Our Sex Problem

Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter!” Isaiah 5:20–
The situation had to do with a man who had a position of authority in our town. He was married and had multiple children.  My job was to follow the workings of our town–requiring our paths to cross.
I guess he pegged me as divorced, struggling, and lonely. Divorced and struggling, yes. Lonely? Not that lonely.
His inappropriateness was subtle yet clear. He liked me. “Did you dress up for me today?” he asked once. Continue reading “Our Sex Problem”

Reinventing Christmas

“No one is useless in this world who lightens the burdens of another.” Charles Dickens
I wasn’t sure it was the kind of story four children would want to sit through for nearly two hours. But it’s important for kids to know that stories can change the world. So we went anyway.
The movie was The Man Who Invented Christmas–a depiction of Charles Dickens’s struggle to publish his classic “A Christmas Carol”.
It wasn’t a good sign that the movie was showing only at our discount theater–an editorial comment by the theater showing a lack of faith in the film. Sometimes, that’s enough to limit the audience–creating a self-fulfilling prophecy.
But the movie was fabulous. And I’m not the only one who thought so. Continue reading “Reinventing Christmas”

Give Thanks

It is good to give thanks to the Lord
And to sing praises to Your name, O Most High;
To declare Your lovingkindness in the morning
And Your faithfulness by night, Ps 92:1-2
The blessing jar is waiting to be stuffed with acknowledgments of God’s grace, help, and gifts through this year.
May your jar (or cup) of blessings overflow.
Happy Thanksgiving. Continue reading “Give Thanks”

Returning a Favor

When I moved into my home in 1977, I salvaged an old table my father was discarding. Our family grew from four to seven around that table.
Then we shrank. When their father departed, we were six.
The years began to show on the table. One of its legs began to wobble. Without warning, it would collapse to the floor leaving all the work for the other three legs. We would laugh. But after a while, one of us found the falling leg not so funny.
When my youngest son was eight years old, he found a hammer and some very long nails and played carpenter. He reattached the errant piece, permanently joining it to the table. The repair was effective, but not pretty. Continue reading “Returning a Favor”

The Waiting Room of Life

I wait for the LORD, my soul does wait, And in His word do I hope. Psalm 130:5
When I was in high school, I spent good chunks of time waiting for my dad to pick me up–from school, from practice, from lessons. It all seemed such a waste. Once I learned how to drive, I had to wait for my turn to have the car.
I wasn’t good at waiting. I’m still not.
Waiting in line, in traffic–those times can be frustrating. Waiting for life events to unfold might be the hardest test of faith. We wait as a situation resolves itself, as someone else makes a decision we can’t control. That’s difficult. But that’s what makes us grow in Christ.
As Tish Harrison Warren writes, “Christians are people who wait . . . Christ has come and he will come again. We dwell in the meantime. We wait.” Continue reading “The Waiting Room of Life”

Respecting the Sacred Within Us

But we have this treasure in earthen vessels . . . II Cor 4: 7a
We are earthen vessels, comprised of soil and God breathed life. We stumble, fall, and get dirty. We cause others to fall. Along with our depravity–our bent selves leaning toward sin–we embody imago Dei–the image of God.
If we are Christ’s, we carry the Holy Spirit. Yet the battle between His spirit and our bent tendencies continues. We feed our souls the way we feed our bodies–with nourishing foods or with junk. And though we may try to convince ourselves differently, what we consume matters. Continue reading “Respecting the Sacred Within Us”

A Gift Prepared Ahead of Time

It was a work of Providence I might have missed. I have no idea how long the book sat on the shelf waiting for me to buy it. But I do know it was there just for me–just for the moment I would need it.
That moment would be one every mother who has watched her son go to war knows. It’s an indescribable emptiness. But an almighty God can reach down to fill a heart’s void. And He can use any little nook or cranny to do so.
My daughter and I were in an antique store killing time as we waited to see my son off. He was deploying to Iraq. While we shopped, his unit was on base packing equipment. Families would see our soldiers later that evening for a short time before they left for their departure point.
A yearlong deployment lay ahead. Continue reading “A Gift Prepared Ahead of Time”

Blended Seasons

Snow in November. The chill of autumn has come to us late. Slushy mounds grow on the leaves–usually gone by now.
Seasons of life blend together. Aspects of one last longer than expected. Pieces of another filter in sooner than we anticipate. A usually brown season has more color this year. Hardy leaves of orange, yellow, and red hang on, refusing to let go.
Blended seasons bring a chilled summer day or a spring thaw in January.
We yearn to hang on to this season. Or we hope time will pass more quickly so we can get to the next thing–the next piece of fleeting time that will take us to yet another.
Linger today in the chill or the warmth. Let the season that is now remain. It will pass soon enough.
A lesson to myself.


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Liturgy of the Ordinary–A Review

“If I am to spend my whole life being transformed by the good news of Jesus, I must learn how grand, sweeping truths–doctrine, theology, ecclesiology, Christology–rub against the texture of an average day. How I spend this ordinary day is how I will spend my Christian life.” Tish Harrison Warren
An ordinary day. Do we truly have ordinary days? Or is every day something special? Something God is working through to shape us–to show us His grand, sweeping truths?
That’s the question Warren’s book Liturgy of the Ordinary: Sacred Practices in Everyday Life answers well.
Warren takes us from morning to evening, from waking to going to bed again. She encourages us to make our beds and brush our teeth and not stress over lost keys or too much email sucking away our time. She calls us to guilt-free indulgences of simple pleasures–sipping a cup of tea–delighting in a pastry–rejoicing in a nap–cultivating a friendship.
She invites us to find the extraordinary in an ordinary day and to pursue the wonder of great truths too often lost in mundane activities–making sandwiches and sitting in traffic.
But this book is not a how-to survive modernity in eleven easy steps. It’s worthy of individual or group study, complete with discussion questions at the end.
Our daily lives contain a struggle most of us–all of us?–deal with. The curse of modernity. We live hectic, crazy lives.
Liturgy of the Ordinary is an ointment for weary souls.
 


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